Dreams....hmm, well let's see I think I can categorize these things....let's see: Class 1-Dreams that reflect what happened in your life or something you are anticipating. Class 2- As you said, subconscious/concious desires....fantasies if you will, or just some crazy shit if you've eaten too many pork rinds or something. Class 3-Psychic dreams....precognitions...future sight, predictions. Actually, I have a few of these sometimes...creepy as hell when the deja vu kicks in....

Hope this helps,
~Zoo

My sister actually had one of them Class 3 bad boys. The night my grandfather died, she said she was dreaming that we were all in his hospital room over his bed and he was laying there. All of a sudden, she said, he got up and started dancing around and running around the room. Obviously, we figure that was when he passed.

I find dreams very fascinating, and did some studying of Jung and the like back in the day. In my personal opinion, they are a bit of both. You will notice specific things that have happened or you have seen or thought about recently in your dreams that seem to fit into a general theme or message. It is also thought that dreams are our mind trying to work out our problems as we sleep (a good reason to "sleep on it").

Additionally, guys (and girls, to a lesser extent) have freaky sex dreams that they have absolutely no control over. He probably didn't mean anything by it and couldn't help that he dreamt it -- though he probably should have kept it to himself. Of course, it could mean something about his relationship with you -- he's worried that he's abused your friendship or something?

Try googling Jung + dreams and see what you come up with. There's also a book out there called a dream dictionary (I used to have one but can't find it anymore) that's really interesting.

If I ever get time to read CASUALLY rather than for my slave driver of an English teacher, I'll look into Jung, dreams and connections in the brain, etc, always intrigue me.

He didn't mean anything by it, but he didn't mind telling a lot of people. Oh well, just a little bump in the road.

Oddly enough, another friend of mine had "freaky sex dream" and I got angry because I can't seem to muster me a good sex dream.

Oddly enough, another friend of mine had "freaky sex dream" and I got angry because I can't seem to muster me a good sex dream.

My sex dreams are ALWAYS me and my husband about to get it on in various situations and scenarios and always being interrupted in one way or another before we can do the deed. Wonder what that means? Guess we're all just looking for a good sex dream, eh?

If I ever get time to read CASUALLY rather than for my slave driver of an English teacher, I'll look into Jung, dreams and connections in the brain, etc, always intrigue me.

He he he . . . I remember what it's like to have tons of required reading. If you can, try to find that Dream Dictionary book -- it's based on Jung's work, and I don't know how valid it is, but it's really fun to try to decipher dreams based on its contents. It's not a "read" so much as a dictionary.

To dream that you are giving or receiving oral sex, signifies your willingness to give or receive pleasure/joy. It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that you are headed in the right direction in life. The dream may also be a pun on talking about sex. You may need to communicate with your mate about your sexual needs and desires. Perhaps you are acting out your sexual wishes.

From dreammoods.com

Don't know how your girlfriend fits in that equation, though . . .

If I see my friend having any extended conversations with my girlfriend in solitude, I'll start to worry. At least my friend looks like he's "headed in the right direction in life"!

At least my friend looks like he's "headed in the right direction in life"!

Well, if it was really something for you to worry about he probably wouldn't have told you about it -- and you're handling it with a lot of maturity.

I can't seem to muster me a good sex dream.

I feel your pain....I can't seem to get any of those little "nightwhores" either....damn, maybe I need to eat a specific food or something....lol

~Zoo

hey, andy
I've done a lot of resaerch on dreams and the subconcious area of the thought process, so i may be of some help. I am a beleiver in dream symbols as well as dream meanings, and the fact that your friend had a dream about some thing so undecided in absolute meaning could cause a bit of controversy in being interpretated. First of all, how close are your friend and gf on terms of friedship? if they are friends, then the dream could mean that he is feeling detatched from her and is subconciously making it known to himself. Sexual dreams are usually not having to do with one's sexual desire for that person.

-kinjruh-